tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post5905396036813274968..comments2023-06-17T01:46:38.518-07:00Comments on Bubblegum's Happy Place!: The marriage & The quarter life crisis!Bubblegumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04528559963349797512noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-80939755220229287282012-09-24T12:07:58.195-07:002012-09-24T12:07:58.195-07:00For the arranged marriage, I always felt that it&#...For the arranged marriage, I always felt that it's like you have been given a person to whom you should love & consider your life partner..A stereo type; where you hardly know much about that person, but have to develop knowing him/her. While in case of a love marriage, you know the person so nicely & are so comfortable to stay with. He/She is your love with whom you willingly choose to spend your entire life.<br /><br />But my sweetie...After 5 years of wedding, I have realized that yes, love marriage is certainly beautiful; but it also has got a big room of unawareness about your spouse! The real life begins after the marriage when we actually get to know the person in his/her practical life..Be it habits, mood swings, social rapport, ways of communication, expression of emotions in different situations, etc.!!<br /><br />So, an overall conclusion is it's only till the marriage there's a difference whether it is love or arranged, else, after the marriage it's pretty much the same! <br /><br />But yes, one satisfaction one can always have in a love marriage, to get married to a person to whom one has loved selflessly & to be loved by that person in return the way you are.. That's the essence of a love marriage! :)<br /><br />Don't think much about these topics..Just leave upto God..Almighty will answer our al the questions very well! & At last, I hope I din't bore you or gave you an over dosage!<br /><br />Love,<br />Sheetal.Sheetal Pandya Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05631223381008497445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-64541546530441690932012-09-24T11:54:04.316-07:002012-09-24T11:54:04.316-07:00Good one !Good one !Sheetal Pandya Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05631223381008497445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-78545646523488700152012-09-09T22:43:19.133-07:002012-09-09T22:43:19.133-07:00haha..thank you.. I told u right my parents haven&...haha..thank you.. I told u right my parents haven't given me option for arrange marriage.. so situation is worse here :)Priyal Shahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02268342426571989065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-86589701640933975292012-09-09T01:44:22.394-07:002012-09-09T01:44:22.394-07:00Hmmmmmmmmm :) Hmmmmmmmmm :) Bubblegum....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11503390111525664893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-72225669373441523642012-09-09T01:43:52.136-07:002012-09-09T01:43:52.136-07:00Thank you senior for the suggestion! Same to you :...Thank you senior for the suggestion! Same to you :D :DBubblegum....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11503390111525664893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-80032956420663644832012-09-09T01:43:24.573-07:002012-09-09T01:43:24.573-07:00Very true. Very true. Bubblegum....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11503390111525664893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-76495796086395252902012-09-09T01:43:10.759-07:002012-09-09T01:43:10.759-07:00:):)Bubblegum....https://www.blogger.com/profile/11503390111525664893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-28514241588125528072012-09-09T00:55:17.696-07:002012-09-09T00:55:17.696-07:00Quarter life crisis?Isnt it also the best time of ...Quarter life crisis?Isnt it also the best time of your life.???<br /><br />Shanavaibhavhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261420804928943872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-85555701508693023442012-09-07T21:42:01.953-07:002012-09-07T21:42:01.953-07:00It still puzzles me that, how do you marry some on...It still puzzles me that, how do you marry some one who you don't know even? In that case you artificially try to create interest for that person, instead of natural affection in the other one. <br /><br />So, find it yourself and then get it arranged :)Priyal Shahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02268342426571989065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-3894720738651708022012-09-07T08:27:45.785-07:002012-09-07T08:27:45.785-07:00Bubblegum,
Marriage is not just union of two indi...Bubblegum,<br /><br />Marriage is not just union of two individuals but coming together of two families also. You may know some one for years but it is only when living together 7 X 24 that you get to know the person actually. Same stands true for family of partner too. I will quote two fellow bloggers here : <br /><br />Success of marriage does not depend upon finding the right partner but on being one.<br /><br />Marriage is like flowerbed which needs to be tended everyday. <br /><br />Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-14241535392182117942012-09-07T03:45:01.201-07:002012-09-07T03:45:01.201-07:00By the by, love the way you write!! :DBy the by, love the way you write!! :D3.14-eaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01540988893182646625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6396050504786798193.post-92032224813500688152012-09-07T03:44:20.362-07:002012-09-07T03:44:20.362-07:00Yes. You start the post with quarter life crises a...Yes. You start the post with quarter life crises and end with Panipuri, which is indeed the only crisis we have right now!3.14-eaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01540988893182646625noreply@blogger.com