And thats the deal my dear!

Dear Friend,

I know you will like to be called by this name and designation I am providing to you. People call you GOD,I don't mind, I used to pray you. I do and I will.But, I like to refer you as my friend, I feel closer to you.Just like my best buddies.

I wonder, people always ask you to remove their worries and what do you do when one's pain is other's gain?How do you manage? I though I will reduce your pressure to perform and take you in confidence! Yeah that's me. Its not that I dint come to you and pray for nothing. I did, that was a mistake. That's what makes me respect you now in a different way. No really, what you do is always best for me. Either I learn or I just enjoy,and now I manage to do both together. Thanks to you my buddy.Lets make a deal,to reduce your workload.

I am so grateful to you. You have given me enough to enjoy. You gave me wonderful personalities as my parents, best younger brother who can annoy me even by an sms.Best bro-buddies who can actually do anything right from pulling my cheeks to pulling my legs to make me smile.

Now, I wonder of course there will be some learnings for me na. You will make sure that I learn through mistakes (I have already made some horrible ones!) and I will correct them.
So here is a deal,

You give me happiness, I will celebrate, I will feel near;
You give me struggle, I will overcome, I wont fear;
And that's the deal my dear.

You need not worry about me. :) Friends mein no sorry no thank you. No give and take relations. You can take me for granted, but remember the deal ;)

Bubblegum :)

PS:Something I learn from a drama, "Kanji Vs Kanji". I loved the concept of talking to God as your friend.I thank Shakira too for the title :D

Pimple-y live!

Ok fine. Better late than never.

I have started getting typical teen-age pimples on my face, at the age of 24. Yes. I never had them in my teen-age. This has raised quite a few discussions at my office.

Okay, the 'saddest PJ 'ever cracked by me is mentioned in the title when I realized its a typical kind of teenage pimples. Yeah Pimpley-live! :D The PJ was followed by a live blank-expression on the face of my buddy :D

The buddy sitting just opposite to me,commented  in Marathi "Tarunyapitika", and started laughing, others also joined. They finally declared that they might take me a bit seriously as I am out of my childhood phase and now in the teenage phase at the age of 24! :/

One buddy of my gang- '3 bandar office k andar', also commented something on my physical age and mental age which was ignored by me :D I dint listen to him :D I could only hear laughter. Ah, common being the youngest one in the group is a painful thing too!!!!!People get jealous of my maturity levels you see :D

Okay here is a theory,originally made by my friend,Shana and edited by Bubblegum,

I am aggressive & I seem to be 'Sikh' (My surname makes people think, I am sikh!) and Pimples actually thought I was 'Sick',not 'sikh' and they came to me, albeit at the wrong age :D

Okay, to avoid eggs thrown by you people I go to wash my face and apply some medicines to just kill the,

"Pimple-y live!" :D

PS:Sorry I am horrible at PJs and they were called as 'Zeher' by one of my buddies, truly! Some eggs for you too Shane :D

Pink and me!

I think I loved the colour 'Pink' in childhood when I never thought I have to be a tom boyish girl and even if I become one, I don't have to give up 'pink'! :D

I remember, I had so so many frocks and skirts gifted to me in Pink and my all time favourite purple shade.I adored them all. I loved them and I used to feel them-Feel pink!

Slowly in the male dominated classes, in the rage and race of moving ahead of boys, I started disowning 'pink'. I felt I have to be with guys, be like them to move ahead and prove myself. So, I left 'Pink'. I tried to dislike and hate 'Pink'. College days went in blues and blacks (Ah, they are still my favourite) and forcefully fooling myself that I don't like 'Pink'.

Once I got my job in Mumbai, I started feeling blues and then 'Pinks'! Yes! I have started loving it back. I want to have almost every potential thing which can look adorable in pink. In fact not the tacky pink, kindda baby pink and some 2-3 darker shades than that, albeit in combination with some other colour.Ah,picky I am.

I feel I am back, Bubblegum is back to original. I call myself now a girlie tom-boy and that's what I am! I absolutely love all my independent guys like skills and mindsets to my girlie characteristics (Earings and anklets in main!).

With accepting this pinky phenomena,

I seize myself in 'PINK'!!! :)

Ah, as Miley Cyrus said, "Pink is not just a colour, its an attitude!!!!"

PS:I really love my gray-pink shoes :) Oh okay dont stare they are pretty sober and stylish.

Sunday ke fundae!!

Sundays are always special, as this Sunday I had nothing special in my plan , I re-planned and gained some special fundaes (Okay-Fundaes to kill/pass your time) to share with all readers and blog-friends.

Fundae-1: If you feel homesick, call your buddies (not all) who have left the city where you are currently and you really had to suffer the sudden change in your life. Please throw all your anger on him/her. Hmmm.. Did you feel better? Well please don't call all buddies, as you might get disowned by your buddies you call. Preserve others for the next 'homesick' weekend :D

Fundae-2: If you dream about a particular food-dish, you smell almost every minute, try all your luck to drag at least a friend to go the destination by hook or by crook,even if your most of friends are out of the city. You are a charm, you will get at least a friend to come along,make sudden plans and enjoy :)

Fundae-3: You can play 'angry birds' to throw out the frustration. It is awesome! It kills time, diverts your mind and when you see the 'angry expressions' of birds, you really feel good :D

Fundae-4: Find a cute baby of one of your neighbours, play with him/her, tell stories and enjoy! But, when his/her mom comes to you to take him/her back , you might really feel bad , as the kid might become a fan of yours :D He might hug you and just refuse to go back! :D

Fundae-5:Youtube. It has some super silly and stupid videos which might make you 'lol' all the time. Yeah you can find some senti-emotional and inspirational stuff also. Ah, you can also irritate people by sending a silly video link when they send you a real wonderful inspirational emotional video links. :D

Fundae-6: Last but not least!! Blog-draft about all your time pass fundaes and feel amazed about your potential. But, you dont feel like posting it and then after a day you feel like posting it and you post it too! Bingo. Ah, but then you remember its Monday today, you don't need these fundaes :D

PS: Yes, Fundaes are tried and tested. Ah, tasted too-Cheesecake! :D No wonder why one of my bro-buddies calls me 'Chuhi' and 'Jerry' :D, I name you 'Tom', dada :D

I dont want him-He is back.

I saw him yesterday. He came inside my home without my permission.

I couldn't do anything. I was blank, I couldn't scream. I couldn't show my anger or fear. I was freezed.

He came to my place some months ago, I had taken enough care after that. I prayed he should not be back.

But, he is back.
I have to face the fear every time I go home. I live with fear in my own place. He comes, he sits aramse, he stares at me,he enjoys my fears and then go inside.

I stand there, I shout sometimes,"Go away you looser", but he doesn't. He leaves when he wants.

I have dealt with some jerks like him before also, albeit with the help of my not-so-brave roomies.

I am scared, yes he is back, please somebody save me, save my roomie from the fear!

He is back.-The mouse. I don't want him.

 :D

Fool of thoughts?!

Disclaimer: A typical Bubblegum rant and a typical silly post! :)

I have developed a habit of thinking ,thinking a lot actually.

It's bad, I am at my best when I do things without thinking :D Be it a presentation or singing or dancing or even as crazy as playing pranks. My spontaneous self is more powerful than my thoughtful self.

So, I am trying to control my thinking-over thinking, which makes me silent, people get scared seeing me in my mute mode. :D People also than try to think why I think , I also think and there will be 'nothing' as an output! :D

I seriously need something to stop or discard the process.Its not I am not busy! I am busy like hell these days and I love to stay busy. But, still I think a lot and I am very much efficient it seems!

Over thinking makes me stressed. I think about me,my job,my future,my family,my buddies to my handbag and earings too!! I have become sensitive and reactive to the situation.I am getting suffocated as I try to hide my expressions subconsciously.

It is not at all a devdas/sad situation. I am just lost somewhere in thoughts.

Chill Bubblegum, you have to keep on bubbling!Bubblegum you have zillion plans to have fun with friends!

I need to stop over thinking,stop worrying may be. I have to be bindas again!

One of my bro-buddies tells me the reason of my fluctuating health,and that is my mind. My mind runs at supersonic speed and body is left behind , imbalance to hona hai hai system mein! :D

I believe of I am not ready not even Baba Ramdev or Shilpa Shetty's Yoga/Pranayam can help. But this time I am making a fool of myself, Fool of thoughts!!

Ek laaaaaamba Kit-kat ya Chit-Chat break to banata hai boss!!!

Toony memories.

Cartoon Network, the most loved tv channel by My brother and me and hated by Mumma. Period.

I don't know from when I started following the channel, but certainly it was not before my brother started,my younger brother.

Early memories related to cartoons are of  'The Jungle Book'. The title track is something I still love (Actually all title tracks of all cartoons except of 'Road Runners') and I still have that in my mobile :)

I used to follow 'The Disney hour' very regularly before I was glued to Cartoon Networks. I really loved all characters in Disney Land of Paris I visited after years!

First my brother was glued to the channel and it was then compulsory for me to watch all of them.We started with Richie Rich, I was so so so much fascinated by the whole concept, may be from there only I picked up my interest in Robotics.Our favourite was 'Swat cats' too, known as 'Chhote Miyau and bade miyaun ' in hindi version. Fighter planes,the war,missiles and aerobatics!! We loved them the most!! :)

I must mention the reason why my brother ate 'spinach' in his childhood was 'The Popeye'! The way the Popeye fought was the only reason my mumma could make him eat Spinach or any bhaji in the name of spinach.

I can not forget to mention, 'Scooooby doooby Doo'!! We very much loved it! We used to keep on singing the track while playing ,in fact I remember playing bhoooot, the ghost with white cloath on the body! I also remembered after some days we had got warnings of being kicked out of our place by mom :D

I used to hate the whistle by Road Runner, bipppp beeeeeep! And, I still used to watch the silly cartoon, along with 'Looney Toons!'. I used to love the Bugggss Bunnny show!! :)

There was a phase in our childhood when we used to live on cartoon networks.(Exactly it was my brother's childhood, mom still says I was elder enough not to get fascinated by cartoons like other girls of my age , but then she was convinced I was(am) a tomboyish girl by that time!) Summer vacation- Cartoon Network, cousin's get together-Cartoon Network, Khate khate-Cartoon Network,Lets draw something?-Cartoons, Lets buy compass boxes/toys/frocks/tee shirts-Cartoons. Only my passion for reading never got affected.

But then I grew up. I was little less immatured and crazy.

It was so nice to get an sms from my brother some days before my parent's wedding anniversary to discuss about the gift,

'Scooby Dooby Doo, where are you, we've got some work to do now...
Scooby Dooby Doo, we need some help from you now...'

The sms I had saved in my 'Important messages' folder, I just read it, I am feeling Nostalgic!! :)

I am love in'it :)