I'm someone who believes, fights are immensely important for relationships. Specially, if taken for constructive building of the foundation of the relationship.
Fights help to understand each other.
Fights help to find flaws in one other.
Fights make you understand someone's perspective. Sometimes later but still they do.
Fights we are talking about should end within a stipulated time frame.
Fights if ends with you losing grudges, makes relationships stronger.
Fights can remove biases too.
However, fights which are spiral in nature, can really really hamper peace of mind. Someone who thinks fights are negative, they might not move on faster. Fights with silent treatments are as bad as sufferings within.
These are my thoughts on fights and this is how I fight with my own people. I find them incredible stepping stones, even if some are fierce in nature. If you get a 'fighter' who is as positive as you are about fights, nothing like it. However if you are a constructive 'Fighter' and the other person is someone who thinks fights are just a negative thing- who think a fight spreads bad vibes- things can go complicated.
What kind of a fighter are you?
Can you let it go in a couple of hours? or a night? or three to four days?
Do you Really try to let biases and grudges go afterwards?
Do you go back to your caring self?
Do you 'Feel' it for the one you fought with?
Do you just vent out and let it go?
Fights help to understand each other.
Fights help to find flaws in one other.
Fights make you understand someone's perspective. Sometimes later but still they do.
Fights we are talking about should end within a stipulated time frame.
Fights if ends with you losing grudges, makes relationships stronger.
Fights can remove biases too.
However, fights which are spiral in nature, can really really hamper peace of mind. Someone who thinks fights are negative, they might not move on faster. Fights with silent treatments are as bad as sufferings within.
These are my thoughts on fights and this is how I fight with my own people. I find them incredible stepping stones, even if some are fierce in nature. If you get a 'fighter' who is as positive as you are about fights, nothing like it. However if you are a constructive 'Fighter' and the other person is someone who thinks fights are just a negative thing- who think a fight spreads bad vibes- things can go complicated.
What kind of a fighter are you?
Can you let it go in a couple of hours? or a night? or three to four days?
Do you Really try to let biases and grudges go afterwards?
Do you go back to your caring self?
Do you 'Feel' it for the one you fought with?
Do you just vent out and let it go?
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